Light The Night 2017

Today I was asked to write a few lines about Cutler for this year’s Light The Night, as he will be on stage for the introductions, and while writing something down I started to get pretty emotional. I was pretty surprised as I usually file those emotions away, but then I realized that it is 9/11 which is our anniversary of Cutler’s diagnosis. So this post is now two fold, it’s my chance to share my post from several years ago sharing what 9/11 means to us by sharing my post from a few years ago.

https://teamfricke.org/2014/09/11/our-personal-911/

It’s also my chance to ask for your support during our annual fund raising efforts. Unfortunately being focused on training the past three weeks I have not been able to push forth our efforts as I have in the past. Fortunately we have a big head start provided Cutler’s swim team’s efforts raising close to $5000 via the swimathon. Please consider helping us in your efforts. Any size donation counts. Help us eradicate blood cancers and help prevent others from having their own personal 9/11.

http://pages.lightthenight.org/gat/StLouis17/teamcutler

It’s On!

This past April marked one year since I quit working and decided to spend the summer with the boys.  When they went back to school last fall I started to look at getting back into the work force and then we started thinking it would be good to look into starting something for ourselves and for the future of our family.  As a big fan of Nothing Bundt Cakes from our Dallas days we started meeting with them last October and after several meetings I realized the numbers don’t lie and Melanie and I made the decision to pursue a franchise, which was awarded to us in December.

After very long and complicated lease negotiations we will be signing our lease for a building in Fairview Heights, Il on Monday.  For my non St. Louis friends, the location is about 20 miles from downtown and more importantly a few miles from my hometown of O’Fallon, Il.  For my Illinois friends, our location is 5915 N Illinois (Hwy 159) about a mile south of the mall right next to the St. Louis Bread company.  Our current projected opening date is November 10th, but we are doing everything we can to move that up to be sure we are fully prepared for the holidays.

As our family blog has been dormant I suppose now is a good time to get it back up and running.  I will do my best to post regular updates on our progress in an effort to keep everyone up to date and probably more importantly to provide me a release of the stress that runs non stop through my head.

Below is a video that we put together as part of our application process for the franchise.  It’s cheesy and fun, which is pretty much a great description of our family.

Mother’s Day 2017

The mom’s in my life are so special that I decided they were too good to post this along with everyone else’s posts about their mother.

So happy Mother’s Day first to the incredible mother of my boys.  The way my boys look up to her and love on her really is well deserved.  She is patient and kind and always supportive of the boys’ dreams even if it means sitting at the ballpark watching them play baseball on her special day.


A very happy Mother’s Day to my special mom who has helped raise me to be what I believe is a pretty decent contribution to society and more importantly she has been an incredibly loving and supportive grandmother.  Sorry we missed your day yesterday, but your understanding and support of the boys’ schedules is also another component of why you are so special.

Someday Is Today, Day 6

LLS has given over $237 million to help patients afford their treatments.

Help give light to patients in one of the darkest moments of their life.

http://pages.lightthenight.org/gat/StLouis16/teamcutler

All Of That For A Dime?

Tonight we took the boys to see 42nd Street at the Muny. After the act centered around finding a dime and then busted into “We’re in the money” song and dance Cutler looks at me and asks “All that for a dime?”

It seems like he has something like that almost every day where his one liners just leave me in between rolling my eyes and rolling in laughter. 

It’s The Little Things

As the hockey season has come to an end for Mason,  I finally found time to start looking through some of the old videos and found this little gem from a tournament in Nashville.  As a goalie, Mason did a pretty good job with, at times, little defensive support and several times was hammered after the whistle with little to no push from the defense to interfere.  That was until this tournament.  After getting hammered in the first game by a team from Chicago the coaches must have gotten into their heads about protecting Mason as this was just a few minutes into this game.  Funny how this stood out to me more so than any good saves he may have made.

Another Year, Another Healthy Checkup

And another photo op with his big bear.

I’ll post more tomorrow about all of the fun had on our trip back to Dallas, but just wanted to let everyone know real quick that today’s visit went as perfect as any of these visits could go.  Including Cutler not flinching or crying one bit when they took his blood.  Still blown away by how he just watched and didn’t react when the needle went in.

Thank you to everyone for your thoughts and prayers.

6 year check up

 

Happy 6th Second Birthday

The second birthday may be confusing, but for those who receive bone marrow transplants it is very clear that this is the day that their new, healthy, blood was born.  Six years ago today, depending on what time zone you are reading this from, was that life saving day for Cutler and it is such a glorious day.

This morning before school I was explaining to the boys what this day was and how bone marrow and bone marrow transplants work, including the destruction of the old bone marrow and Mason’s immediate response was “wow dad, that is pretty serious, he could have died.”  I just kind of smiled and told him he was right, but God didn’t let that happen.

I’ll be honest, it is only now that the truth of Mason’s words are hitting me hard and making me realize how blessed we are to have Cutler running around and living life like the crazy, loving, funny, and goofy person he is.  Throughout the year I successfully suppress the memories and emotions of what we went through during his battle, but there are three days that always bring it back.  September 11th, the day he was diagnosed, today, and this coming Monday when we will walk into the oncologists office for Cutler’s annual visit.

I kind of wish the days could be spread out more evenly throughout the year so that I can be reminded more often what is truly important in this world.

Below are a few pictures from each of Cutler’s 2nd birthdays.

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